Most relationships aren't broken. They're just undesigned.
We often treat the symptoms of disconnection—the distance, the routine—without addressing the system underneath. This free workbook offers a simple, design-based perspective to help you navigate your differences and build a life you both truly love.
When you feel more like roommates than partners, you're in the right place.
You're a great team. The bills get paid, the calendar is a masterpiece. But the connection itself feels... efficient. This isn't a personal failure; it's a design problem. We often mislabel it a 'communication issue,' when the real challenge is learning how to build a shared life with someone who is fundamentally different from you.
The First Step:
From a Relationship by Default to a Relationship by Design.
This isn't a 50-page ebook or a complex course. It's a single, powerful exercise designed to create one small, immediate shift. Before you can navigate your differences, you need to define your shared ground. In under an hour, you will:
Clarify Your Shared "Why": Discover the core values that form your unique foundation.
Design your decisions: Use your shared values as a clear lens for making choices together.
Take One Action: Turn that insight into a small, shared experience this week.
A Note From The Designer
From a long list of failing relationships (most my fault), I learned that love alone isn't enough. What was missing wasn't a better person—it was a better design.
My work as a designer taught me one core truth: a design's success is not defined by the creator's intent, but by the user's experience.
I was ignoring this in my own life, where the same truth applies: only through the eyes of the one being loved does love truly exist.
It doesn't matter what you intend to communicate; it only matters what the other person feels.
I created RXD to close that gap. But I soon realized that closing that gap wasn't about a single fix; it was about adopting a new way of seeing the world. It was about embracing the First Principle of this work: Everything is a design.
The love we build is the output of a system we create, either by default or by choice.
This workbook is the tool I wish I'd had. It's the first step to stop living by default and start designing a love that is not just declared, but is deeply and consistently felt.
— Daniel Noriega Reto, Founder of RXD
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